Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. Thanks for pointing this stuff out.




Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. This is tough enough when the kids are babies, but when they're older - teenagers - you'll get to tackle all of the hormone-fueled angst, drama, school difficulties, homework, school activities, and be the scapegoat when the kids get mad at you. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse. They even refrain from tea and coffee.
Good luck to you and your boyfriend. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. But what I discovered surprised me. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. Notify me of new posts via email. They're very caring in some ways, but lack where it matters most. You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it.
Me doing everything around the house, running all errands, and working full time doesn't compete with the high stakes work he does and he doesn't understand how hard I am working also because of his job. No one understands it, so thank you for sharing your thoughts so I know I'm not alone and not being too needy for feeling alone. Or am I just being a pushover and need to demand a little more if he wants to keep seeing me. Moved into his house and it is hard to fit in. It really can be that simple.