About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. Is it really worth it to give up what I want out of a relationship because its hard to balance studying which I understand is stressful and being with the person who makes you happy. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. She doesn't want to marry you. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. For the official Church websites, please visit LDS. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members.


From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. She's too heavily invested in Mormonism for that. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. Your spouse can be involved with anything that does not require a scheduled time. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. I don't want to come off as needy or clingy but I've also never dated someone in the medical field before. I'm blessed that he is well and doing so well in school. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. The date night strategy is a great idea, and we have tried it, but he is sometimes on call every other night for a month and it makes it tough the nights he's on call he likes to be home just in case and the nights he's not on call, he needs to sleep in case he's up all night the following night.
And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. I suppose it depends on your personality. Marriage is simply not an option to me there. But then when we do spend time together I have an absolute blast and everything just goes so well that I end up liking him even more. This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. I told her that I want to only be friends. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. We have discussed marriage and kids but I dont want to live a life of lonliness I'm responding to the comment on April 11, - I posted on April 3, Sounds like you are going through my same fears and concerns.
Takes some getting use to. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. You never had it. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. Notify me of new comments via email. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards.